Greg Gilbert has three excellent posts so far on the topic.
1. Reform is easier in a small church than in a large one.
2. Do what Christians do—love.
3. Make yourself a help, not a problem, to your church’s leaders.
Speaking of being a healthy church member, Thabiti Anyabwile has a new, short book out that spells out ten marks of one:
1. An expositional listener
2. A biblical theologian
3. Gospel-saturated
4. Genuinely converted
5. A biblical evangelist
6. A committed member
7. One who seeks discipline
8. A growing disciple
9. A humble follower
10. A prayer warrior