J. Budziszewki makes a great distinction:
Arrogance doesn’t come from having convictions about the truth; it comes from having the wrong convictions about how to treat people who don’t share [them] with you. Humility doesn’t come from not having any convictions; it comes from having the right convictions about the importance of gentleness and respect.
From How to Stay Christian in Collegeby J. Budziszewski. This is an outstanding book on how to withstand the onslaught of secularism which can bombard Christian college students, particularly at state and other non-Christian institutions. It is written with an engaging tone and a great blend of illustrations that weave together Budziszewski’s message, which ranges from his own testimony, to topics like worldview issues, handling non-Christian friends, and social aspects of campus life.